Painting the Master Bedroom

So we decided to repaint the master bedroom, after staring unhappily at the baby blue nursery color that I put up last January.

 The Baby Blue Color that had to go.

To pick a new color, I decided to swing by our local paint shop instead of the usual big box store. This decision was actually kind of difficult. In our last house, we would buy paint from whatever store we happened to be in at the time, so that each room's paint was from a different place. It was a disaster when we needed to do touch ups, trying to remember which store sells which kind of paint.

When we bought this house, I was actually really excited to go to one store and get like 10 gallons of paint for the whole house. The problem is, the store we picked is way out of town. Because it's such a long drive (1.5 hours), we avoid going as much as possible. When we picked the original bedroom paint, we didn't want to bother with paint samples which would involve another trip to the store, so we rushed into the original color decision. It's also not a store that specializes in paint, so I think it has fewer color options. When we were last there, I got paint chips and just didn't like any of the color choices. So all in all, not a great place to have bought all of the paint for the house.

Embracing my city life, I finally opted to check out a local paint shop that has many more color options and is located only a few blocks from home.  In an abundance of caution, we picked up a bunch of paint chips and then bought 5 paint samples. After staring at the multi-colored wall for days in a variety of lights, we finally decided on a new smoky blue/grey color. So now one room will be from one paint store while the rest of the house from another-- [unless I repaint everything else].

Step 1. Remove old phone lines, scrape trim, and caulk.
When phone lines were installed in our house, they did it the crappy way by running lots and lots of wire across the floor and moldings and stapling it in place. Since we can't even get it hooked up (and wouldn't want to anyway), I'm pulling it all out. Unfortunately, lots of it is caulked in place, so as I pull, I have to scrape the old caulk out, and recaulk as I go. [This step really made me think about the fact that houses outlive technology trends, so you should install things carefully (I'm looking at you, Iphone jacks in the wall that now don't fit the newest phone model)].

before with phone lines- after being caulked

Step 2. Replace outlets.
While making the trim pretty, I decided to replace the old black outlets. This is theoretically very easy to do. You just shut off the power at the circuit breaker (*super important step*), pull out the existing outlet, remove each of the existing wires and attach to the new outlet in whatever way they were attached to the old outlet. Then screw in to the wall and replace the cover.

The things that make this actually rather difficult to do are:
a) once you turn off the circuit breaker, all the lamps that are on that circuit go out too. In a room that doesn't get a lot of natural light, this means you need to pull out the trusty camping headlamp to see.
b) old wires are tough. They don't want to bend easily, so getting them on and off of the outlets is a little tricky, and forcing them back in the wall takes some serious effort (ie, squishing, shoving, and forcing angrily).


Step 3. Paint Trim.
Since I recaulked and the trim was pretty scuffy- I needed to repaint it. Painting trim is miserable work because a) there's a lot of it, b) it's super slow and tedious, and c) it hardly looks any different. The paint I'm using is brighter than the old color, so it looks crisper and covers old dings and scrapes. Unfortunately it's so much lighter that it needs two coats. [so much for a quick fix.]

painted and caulked trim

Step 4. Edge & Roll the walls.
Once the trim is dry, I edge. I prefer using a 2 inch slanted brush. I like to edge and roll at the same time to minimize moving my ladder and drop cloth around. I slowly work my way around the room, and then come back at the end for touch ups. Unfortunately, the new color wet is almost the same shade as the old color dry- so it's really hard to tell what has and hasn't been painted until it dries. That meant I had lots of touchups to do.

All done- looking greyer than it should.

 

A better representation of the smoky-blue color and bright white trim

 

Still lots to do in this room, but definitely feeling cozier.

Total Time = 1 week

Active Time = 10 hours

Total Cost = $50 for paint & supplies and new outlets 

We got a new TV!

So our tv has always been small, but it seemed much smaller when we moved to the new house [At some point I'm going to have to stop calling it a new house- but not today!]. While watching, I was often squinting hard to see anything- slowly giving myself a major headache every day. The later at night it got, the harder I would squint until I started looking a little bit pug-ish.  Reading subtitles was downright impossible. "Why don't you just wear your glasses?", you ask. "Because I don't want to." So getting a new bigger one has been on the list for a while, and we just decided to rip the bandaid and do it. Happy Cyber Monday to Us!

New tv is massive! Maybe a little bigger than I would've preferred, but manfolk had a strong opinion, so here we are. And in the spirit of furniture dominos, the old tv came upstairs to the green room so that I can watch the news in the morning as I get ready. To do so, I had to commandeer the console table that was in the fireplace room, but never fit on the wall. There was already a cable box upstairs, but it was in the wrong place- so I had to rip out the cable to move it over, and then reattach. [Sidenote- we have cable running all through both the upstairs and downstairs, just nailed in place. It would be great to someday run it through the walls the nice way- but that's pretty low on the list.]

Green Room gets a new console table and tv- Little Thing tries to eat cords.

Thus, two rooms get a huge improvement, but fireplace room now really needs a new piece of furniture to fill in the hole I just created.


The Master Bedroom

When we moved in, we bought a mattress for our spare bedroom (something we didn't previously have), but never got around to buying the other stuff that makes a bedroom functional. We spent the summer sleeping in the green room because the air conditioner worked better than the one in the master bedroom. After summer ended, we moved back to our proper bedroom, taking the bedding, bedside tables and lamps with us. We plan to have a few houseguests over the holidays (and probably in the future), so we really need a functional guest room. And since the green room was looking great with new curtains that complimented the bedding, it makes more sense to fix up the master bedroom and allow those things to go back to the green room where they belong.

I painted the walls light blue when we first moved in because I couldn't handle white walls- but I think I was too hasty in picking the color. I was going for a smoky, darker blue, but I ended up with a baby blue nursery thing color. Since I don't like the color and there's basically no furniture, bedding, or wall art, this room just sucks.

As winter sets in, all I want to do is snuggle and snooze, so it seems important to have a nice bedroom.  It is the room we spend the most time in, even though we're generally not conscious. [this is probably a completely ridiculous argument, but the bottom line is that I want a nicer bedroom].

Current master bedroom in all its lameness. 

The new plan is serene, calm, and relaxing. The walls will be a more effective smoky color, and everything else will be mostly neutral, with lots of texture and pattern. This is what I'm thinking:

1. A smoky blue color
2. A textured quilt
3. Neutral bedding with an interesting pattern
4. A big, dark wood headboard, preferably something salvaged not store-bought. 
5. A snuggly chair
6. Shiny, metallic lamps
7. A rug that's mostly neutral with a lot of pattern

So- I found the duvet cover on sale at Pottery Barn and grabbed it with a new duvet.

Then, I went to a local market with my brother and found these cool old pieces of ceiling tin. We got four, all in the same charcoal grey color with various textures. They are all reclaimed from old houses and shops, mostly in the Philadelphia area.

 

snazzy tin wall art over the bed.  

Minor progress, but we're on our way. Feeling a little more snuggly already.

Furniture Dominos

One great feature of fixing up any room is that there are ripple effects that improve other parts of the house - like a rising tide that lifts the whole house-- an endless chain reaction of style.  A new thing replaces an old thing, the old thing replaces something else, and ideally the whole house gets a little better.

[Sidenote- I originally had the impression that when you buy a house, every room is suddenly perfectly furnished, exactly as you want. I realize now that that's not remotely how it works (at least not for us) and instead furnishing a house will be a long, slow process of buying one thing and reshuffling everything else to make it all work a little better].

We just got a bunch of great new dining room furniture (yay!!), which meant that we had an extra table, chairs and a bookcase that needed new homes. The old furniture was all in fine shape, it just didn't work in the dining room. Everything went somewhere, making several improvements around the house.

The bookcase moved into the living room, where it replaced an extra dining chair that was trying to be a side table.

Much more functional! The bookcase fits the corner perfectly.
[Sidenote -the fabric thing in the background is this awesome scarf we got in Thailand that's much prettier in real life.]



The table and a chair moved upstairs to replace a small table that was serving as a desk.

That smaller table came downstairs to serve as much-needed extra counter space in the kitchen.

The remaining four chairs each got new homes:

in the entryway as a mail sorter and place to take off your shoes (not permanent, but it works):

in the living room as extra seating:

 in the fireplace room as extra seating:
 

 



and in the dining room as a liquor cabinet (clearly temporary, but still mildly functional):

In total, my parents' extraordinarily generous gifts for one room ended up improving five rooms. Quite a few things got checked off the to-do list, making the house work a little better. Thank you!

Unanticipated House Guest

It was freezing last night as I walked home from work. I was wearing my winter coat and annoyed I didn't have a hat and gloves, when I heard the most adorable little squeal. I followed the noise to a pile of trash near our house and found a tiny little guy, shivering and screaming his little head off. He didn't have any siblings or a mom cat nearby, and clearly didn't have an human owners. I couldn't stand to leave him there, so I took him home to warm up.

He's adorable and super friendly. He wants to be held all the time. He wants to play, but is still wobbly and falls over when he runs.

Our best guess is that he's around 3 or 4 weeks old, which is really young to be away from his mom. At his age, he needs to eat pretty often, and needs a lot of attention.

He needs someone to take him in, and unfortunately it can't be us. We are only keeping him temporarily, but can't add another permanent cat. Our real cat hates him and is not being shy about telling us.

There are a few animal facilities in the DC area, but from what I understand, they have too many kittens and are likely to euthanize him if we drop him off.

If anyone is interested in helping out a friendly little kitten, please let me know.

Dining Room Furniture

Like the rest of the house, the dining room has been looking a little awkward since we moved in. This is what it looked like on moving day. Big sparkly chandelier, bright white walls, very little furniture.

The starting point.

Of all rooms in the house, I was most eager to fix up the dining room. Eating food is a major priority for both of us, and we wanted somewhere nice to do it. I think the days of eating on the living room couch are (or should be) numbered. We were hoping for something like this mood board below- traditional and formal, but cozy and comfortable. Ideally somewhere we could host a lot of great dinner parties.

1. New Bronze Chandelier
2. New Comfy Dining Chairs
3. New Buffet to hold the China
4. New Dining Table
5. Dark Gray, Cozy Wall Color
6. Our existing Copper Art
7. New rug with orange and brown tones

The first step was to paint the walls a nice, cozy grey color which I did in our first month in the house. It helped with the coziness, but somehow brought extra attention to the absurdity of the table (which is smaller than the chandelier).

 ittybitty table under megachandelier

This table has been with me since my first apartment - purchased specifically because it could fit in my car. It worked pretty well at our old condo, but in the new house, it looks absurd. For a few dinner parties, we brought down another spare table, which sort of worked but also looked ridiculous.

Double table trying to look cool.

So, when Dad offered to get us a new one for our wedding gift- we were both really excited. Having a real table that could actually fit more than 2 people was huge. We also really wanted a table that would stay with us for years, and not just be some crappy material that would quickly fall apart. We hunted around for a while and found E Custom Finishes, a company in Massachusetts that makes tables by hand from reclaimed wood.

We needed chairs to go with the table, and wanted something comfortable to sit in for a while. We picked these from Pottery Barn, and picked the parchment color so they would be a bit darker and stand up to some inevitable stainage.

Meanwhile, Mom offered to get us another good piece of furniture as her wedding gift, so we opted for a buffet to hold all of our new china. We found this one at Ethan Allen to replace the small bookcase we're currently using.

Bookcase overflowing with cookbooks, china, table linens and "misc".

After waiting patiently for the past few months - everything has finally arrived! The buffet arrived first, and was super easy.

New Buffet holds china and table linens easily

I'm just excited to have something to decorate. 

The chairs arrived next. One was damaged, but PB had great customer service, so it was easy to get a new one sent out and have the damaged one picked up. [Sidenote, even though we ordered fabric samples, the chairs seem lighter than we expected. We really weren't hoping for white furniture that now needs to be super protected and kept far from food.]

The table was a total headache. The company that built it was fine, but they subcontracted out to another company for delivery, and they turned out to be a disaster. Even with "white glove" service, they wouldn't call to schedule a delivery. It took me calling every day to leave messages that were never returned, complaining to the original table maker, and threatening them before we finally got our table.

Now everything is finally here, and it looks great. The room is super duper more functional, and we've started actually eating in here.  

with extensions-- should fit 10

without extensions- easy 6.

from the side- check out those sweet trestle legs. 

 Bring it on, Thanksgiving!

We're not done with this room yet, but it's come a long way. 

Dining Room To Do List:
Paint Walls
Get new Table and Chairs
Get a Buffet
Hang Curtains
New Rug
Replace Chandelier
Install Recessed Lights
Turn window into a door to the porch

Open wall into kitchen

2013 Marine Corps Marathon

The marathon this year was really different than last year, and yet, almost exactly the same. Last year was my first, and so I was filled with doubt that I could even finish, worried that I wouldn't be fast enough to beat the max time limits, and afraid that some terrible thing would happen that would injure me for life. This year I was much more confident- I knew I could finish. I knew I had trained as well if not better than the previous year, so I thought I would be faster. I knew the course and where the tough spots would be, so I planned and prepared to have my support team located strategically to help me get through.

Though I originally set out with a goal of running in 4 hours, I quickly revised to 4:30. Just before the race, I hoped that 5 would be possible, which would still be faster than last year's time. Oh, sweet optimism.

Just before the start- feeling great.

The morning of the race day started out well. We arrived in time to drop off our bags and swing by the portopotties before joining the massive line of runners. This race, like most big ones, has different corrals to group people by estimated finish time. We didn't have enough time to join our respective corrals, so we both waited together at the end with the other people who either expected to finish post 6 hours or also showed up a little late. The good news was that we got to start together and didn't have to stand around freezing for long, the bad news was that we weren't in a group of other people at each of our own paces.

My first ten miles were great. I averaged a 12 min mile pace (as needed to finish in 5 hours) and felt really strong. I wrote my name on my shirt, which made all the spectators cheer for me. It was amazing- I felt like such a celebrity. I passed my sister in law around mile 5 or 6, which was a huge boost - and powered ahead. Everything was going great.

Around mile 11, my brother joined me  and things started turning downhill. I wanted him to run that section because I knew it was where I started struggling last year, and right on cue my knee started to hurt again. We did a little walking, but mostly kept running until mile 15.

At mile 15, I found my mother in law, brother in law and nephews all cheering with signs. I picked up some aspirin from the fabulous Kim, dropped off my brother and picked up my mom. My knee was hurting a lot, but the drugs kicked in quickly, so I sped right back up. By 17, my friend Molly joined us, and the three of us were just running along steadily. The sun came out, making it a bit warm but really beautiful. The pace really picked up and I felt great. I was shocked to discover that I only barely beat the time cut off at mile 20, because I felt like I was just flying along.

Somewhere between mile 20 and 21, I totally hit the wall. My aspirin had completely worn off. My knee was excruciatingly painful and felt like it was about to fall off. I pictured the parts of my leg being held together with scotch tape. I couldn't handle the pain. From time to time I would try to run again, fighting the tears, only to give up again quickly. It was also much hotter than expected, which started draining my energy.

My mom and my friend tried their hardest to keep me moving, but I just couldn't do it. I walked as fast as I could, trying to run every now and then, but mostly hobbling for the remaining 5 miles. I was constantly watching my watch, recalculating my expected finish time. For the last mile, I realized I wasn't going to beat my old time and gave it everything I had. I pushed through the miserable pain and charged up the last hill- grimacing and crying as I crossed the finish. I ended up finishing almost the exact time as last year. [Sidenote- whoever thought it would be a good idea to put a steep hill at the end of a marathon course needs to be replaced, and/or forced to run it].

Because I love me some charts - here is the comparison in my speeds between the two years.

 

Both years I started at a 12 minute mile, and slowly crept up to a 15 minute mile. Both lines show a similar trend- I start out strong, get slower as I approach mile 10, and then get slightly faster to cross the half marathon line. Both years I slowed down a lot around mile 15 (when my knee really started hurting), and sped back up between 15 and 20 with the help of some aspirin and my friend Molly joining me for the more picturesque part. Once I crossed the bridge at mile 20 in both years, I started slowing back down, hitting the wall, until right before the end when I gave my last kick. Generally this year was slightly slower than last year, with two exceptions. My brother gets credit for the improvement you can see between miles 10 and 15. My mom was with me for the dramatic improvement in the last mile.

 

After the race, wanting to sit down.

 

After the race, I met back up with R, who finished at an exceptional time, and all of our family that had come out to support us. We headed back to a local bar and celebrated with beers and burgers and traded stories until I inevitably fell asleep. I did not get a chance to eat my celebratory brownie sundae that I was running for.

Now, five days later, things are slowly getting back to normal. My knee still hurts a bit, but gets better every day. Even though I haven't moved, I'm still starving and eating way too much. I'm also just disappointed and filled with regrets.

Instead of vowing to try again next year, I have decided to take a break from running. Maybe I'll try another marathon in a few years, but I think for now, I'm done. I tried. I did it, twice, which is still pretty awesome. Now it's time to focus on getting my knee healthy and strong to make sure I don't have any permanent damage and can run again sometime in the future.

My new goal for the next two months is to try as many different types of exercise as I can to break the rut of running, strengthen my legs and maybe find something fun and new. I'm going to take a full break from running for a while, to let my knee rest and because I just don't want to run right now. The spring is full of shorter races (10 milers and half marathons) that I may think about, but for now, I'm done.